Cooling off period....
Im writing today asking myself abt what the meaning of "cooling off period"…..
I roughly have the idea that when someone u love ask for a cooling off period it will naturally means that he or she is taking a break from the relationship… And basically, both me and sayang needed a much cooling off period from each other…. Maybe both of us need the break… But of course, there were reason for it… U don’t have a cooling off period for fun do u??
Sigh.. This is what had happened coupla weeks ago…
Some 2 or 3 weeks ago, I didn’t go to kl and made plans to go out with my friends to hang out and go dancing… Sayang do not like the idea of me going out with my friends clubbing... Most likely sayang feel that I will go astray and pick up someone else when im drunk and also, do stupid things that I will regret later.. I mean I can understand the concern but for crying out loud, im not a young teenager that wants to have sex all the time…
I truly love and miss my sayang every moment.. And im very confident of myself that I will not engage in anything that will ruin the relationship that I have… Im not stupid to throw away the one true happiness that I have…
Sigh…
Anyway, so sayang thinks im always up to some mischief during the weekends… and if im in SG, def will call and check up on me… asking the usual questions like, where are u?? Who u with??? Are u out now???....
So what if im out and my friends hanging out?? I have been trying to make him trust me but its not easy and up till now cant seem to trust me…. What am I going to do??? Ms Dee told me that if theres no trust, then the relationship is doom to fail… And sayang knew and understand that…
Anyway, I asked for a cooling off period… The last time we spoke, sayang got angry and start to scream and yell… I feel that hes verbally abusing me… Its not the first time and I def hope that the temper will change for the better… I don’t want to have a relationship with such a person…
The reason for the anger is becos I didn’t buy tix to kl during the next holiday period (May Day)… its not that I don’t want to go but I change the tix to a later date in month of May… and I paid quite an amount too… Plus I did sms and sayang replied to me that need time to think and since I already change the tix, so im just going to stick to the dates… Fine, so I did as told… No point arguing over the matter...
So pls don’t get angry and blow yr top at me… Im giving u the space and time for you to cool down….
I know I may not be the best and easy person to live or love but at least I try to keep cool and not explode and start to curse and shout…. If you are really very upset and cant control yr temper then talk to me when u have cooled off….
Its that too much to ask for????
I roughly have the idea that when someone u love ask for a cooling off period it will naturally means that he or she is taking a break from the relationship… And basically, both me and sayang needed a much cooling off period from each other…. Maybe both of us need the break… But of course, there were reason for it… U don’t have a cooling off period for fun do u??
Sigh.. This is what had happened coupla weeks ago…
Some 2 or 3 weeks ago, I didn’t go to kl and made plans to go out with my friends to hang out and go dancing… Sayang do not like the idea of me going out with my friends clubbing... Most likely sayang feel that I will go astray and pick up someone else when im drunk and also, do stupid things that I will regret later.. I mean I can understand the concern but for crying out loud, im not a young teenager that wants to have sex all the time…
I truly love and miss my sayang every moment.. And im very confident of myself that I will not engage in anything that will ruin the relationship that I have… Im not stupid to throw away the one true happiness that I have…
Sigh…
Anyway, so sayang thinks im always up to some mischief during the weekends… and if im in SG, def will call and check up on me… asking the usual questions like, where are u?? Who u with??? Are u out now???....
So what if im out and my friends hanging out?? I have been trying to make him trust me but its not easy and up till now cant seem to trust me…. What am I going to do??? Ms Dee told me that if theres no trust, then the relationship is doom to fail… And sayang knew and understand that…
Anyway, I asked for a cooling off period… The last time we spoke, sayang got angry and start to scream and yell… I feel that hes verbally abusing me… Its not the first time and I def hope that the temper will change for the better… I don’t want to have a relationship with such a person…
The reason for the anger is becos I didn’t buy tix to kl during the next holiday period (May Day)… its not that I don’t want to go but I change the tix to a later date in month of May… and I paid quite an amount too… Plus I did sms and sayang replied to me that need time to think and since I already change the tix, so im just going to stick to the dates… Fine, so I did as told… No point arguing over the matter...
So pls don’t get angry and blow yr top at me… Im giving u the space and time for you to cool down….
I know I may not be the best and easy person to live or love but at least I try to keep cool and not explode and start to curse and shout…. If you are really very upset and cant control yr temper then talk to me when u have cooled off….
Its that too much to ask for????
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