Cooling off period....

Im writing today asking myself abt what the meaning of "cooling off period"…..
I roughly have the idea that when someone u love ask for a cooling off period it will naturally means that he or she is taking a break from the relationship… And basically, both me and sayang needed a much cooling off period from each other…. Maybe both of us need the break… But of course, there were reason for it… U don’t have a cooling off period for fun do u??

Sigh.. This is what had happened coupla weeks ago…

Some 2 or 3 weeks ago, I didn’t go to kl and made plans to go out with my friends to hang out and go dancing… Sayang do not like the idea of me going out with my friends clubbing... Most likely sayang feel that I will go astray and pick up someone else when im drunk and also, do stupid things that I will regret later.. I mean I can understand the concern but for crying out loud, im not a young teenager that wants to have sex all the time…
I truly love and miss my sayang every moment.. And im very confident of myself that I will not engage in anything that will ruin the relationship that I have… Im not stupid to throw away the one true happiness that I have…

Sigh…

Anyway, so sayang thinks im always up to some mischief during the weekends… and if im in SG, def will call and check up on me… asking the usual questions like, where are u?? Who u with??? Are u out now???....
So what if im out and my friends hanging out?? I have been trying to make him trust me but its not easy and up till now cant seem to trust me…. What am I going to do??? Ms Dee told me that if theres no trust, then the relationship is doom to fail… And sayang knew and understand that…
Anyway, I asked for a cooling off period… The last time we spoke, sayang got angry and start to scream and yell… I feel that hes verbally abusing me… Its not the first time and I def hope that the temper will change for the better… I don’t want to have a relationship with such a person…
The reason for the anger is becos I didn’t buy tix to kl during the next holiday period (May Day)… its not that I don’t want to go but I change the tix to a later date in month of May… and I paid quite an amount too… Plus I did sms and sayang replied to me that need time to think and since I already change the tix, so im just going to stick to the dates… Fine, so I did as told… No point arguing over the matter...

So pls don’t get angry and blow yr top at me… Im giving u the space and time for you to cool down….

I know I may not be the best and easy person to live or love but at least I try to keep cool and not explode and start to curse and shout…. If you are really very upset and cant control yr temper then talk to me when u have cooled off….

Its that too much to ask for????

Madonna sang to me just now...

Your heart is not open
so I must go
The spell has been broken,
I loved you so
Freedom comes when you learn to let go
Creation comes when you learn to say no
You were my lesson
I had to learn
I was your fortress you had to burn
Pain is a warning that something's wrong
I pray to God that it won't be long
Do ya wanna go higher?

Chorus:There's nothing left to try
There's no place left to hide
There's no greater power
Than the power of good-bye
Your heart is not open so I must go
The spell has been broken, I loved you so
You were my lesson I had to learnI was your fortress.........

Stupid Bus Company T&Cs!!!!

I am writing to express my utter frustration at a certain tour/coach company....

Story goes like this, i had booked and paid for a return coach tix departing on the eve of the Good Friday holiday (Thurs nite) to KL but due to unforeseen circumstances, I need to change the dates a month later (will write abt that unforeseen circumstance soon, promise!)...

So Monday nite, after work i trotted down to Golden Mile where the bus company is... I had stayed late in the office trying to help a customer do some configuration work but i failed miserably (fyi, im a sales person and not a tech officer)... Dead tired and hungry i had to do the changes soonest as i assume, most bus company will have a time frame of at least 3 working days.... I was very confident that at most i need to pay a maximum of $10 or maybe nothing at all since i have a grace period of 3 days...

So walked up to the guy at the counter (name: Daniel) , who i bought the tix earlier from, and explained my needs.... Naturally, the guy jumped and quickly informed me that there will be no refund of the tix purchase and instead I need to buy for the new dates....

Madness!! its not like im going to cancel the tix but just need to change the dates, for god sake!! So i argued and argued but insist that im canceling the tix.. and the worse bit that do not make any sense, penalty for cancellation is base on tour packages bought!! WHAT THE HELL???

Hello.. i bought coach tix and not a tour package... U know the terms and conditions indicated that if i cancel my departure date, there will be a $300 fee... And i bought the tix for like $62 but if i change/cancel coach tix will be at $300, and need to give 1 month notice too!!
sigh... so in the end after i nearly screamed my head off, explaining to them that conditions is extremely ridiculous, the lady relented (by this time Daniel,poor chap,had to ask a senior staff for assistance) unwillingly, and told me that i need to pay additional $30 for amendments...
Its definitely fine with me cos im doing an amendment and not a CANCELLATION!!!

One thing is for sure i will def not buy any more tix from that company!!

Oh if u readers would like to know which company is this, its GR Travel

Blogger's Block...

Wah!! It has been quite awhile since i update my blog... The only excuse that i can say is that i have blogger's block (or is it just plain lazy)???

Any Ms Cheerio have asked me to update my blog and so shall i... lets see what has happened...

Well the incamp training was done and completed.... Oh and before that sayang and myself helped to assist ms cheerio on the fashion show over at orchard road ( well i think i did more to help then sayang)... it was fun that day... Rained cats and dogs but thank heavens, the sky cleared and the fashion show was ready to rock!!
The girls looked so beautiful in the designs and everybody was in high spirit before,during and after the show.... And ms cheerio, i do hope that one day the designs will go regional and then the boutique can conquer the world!!!! and I will def assist u in whatever ways i can... PROMISE!!!

Ms Dee came to watch the show with JA... She cameback from her holiday in Penang.. She of course was the bridesmaid.. Looked so fabulous with her dress the aunt chosed... NOT!! JA, fyi, is the man in Ms Dee at the moment... Happily together nesting in nyc!! Very jealous as she has someone to look after her and cooked meals... So Ms Dee, Enjoy!! And do try to update yr blog as frequent as u can...

So after the fashion show, i had to go the incamp training.... oh my god!! it was a blast!! heheeh..
i was prepared for the worse but it turned out alright.... I guess having good friends, Mr Steward and Mr Nurse, helped alot... it keeps the mood lively even tho at times i wanted to scream out loud at the schedule, the waking up at ungodly hours and staying late at nite to do nite duties....But again, i must say that i had loads of fun and now im actually looking forward to nex year in camp.... Weird or what?!
oh and as usual, i failed my IPPT.... now im wondering how can an overweight person like me ever passed the test..... sigh.... lets see if theres any changes and who knows, i just might be motivated to lose weight and actually passed the friggin test... my problem is the bleeding chin up bar and running the 2.4km...
I do have a motivation to lose weight cos have plans to go phuket some time in june with sayang.... hmmm at least when im there i wont be shy walking ard the beach topless.... i think i will do something!! update in the blog if i managed to lose ANY weight...

On the love front... things are not as rosy... have many fights with the sayang and now we are having a cooling off period... was told that want to meet only in June... thats like 2months!! told sayang im unable to wait that long and compromised.. so meeting in kl during the vesak hols (12may).. so thats something to look forward too.... and i frigging hope sayangs feelings towards me will not wither or worse, during this period decides to break up!!! Then my life is completely over!!!!

How like that??? dont want to think too much abt the sayang situtation now..